But guess what? That’s okay. Doesn’t mean I’m gonna go and waste my time trying to fuck up your life. I don’t give two shits about what you do or what you think of me. I only care about the one thing that ties us together: your kids. What I wish you would realize is that you have no say in this family anymore because it is no longer *exclusively* yours. That’s right. I’m a part of it too now. Maybe not with you, but certainly to your kids.
I have been around for well over a year now and I have become a big part of those kids’ lives because I am engaged with them on a daily basis. Just because you don’t like me doesn’t mean that I don’t deserve respect. Just like I should (and DO) respect that you are their Dad. The smart thing to do would be to quit worrying about what I’m doing and focus on BEING. THEIR. DAD.
You’re saying ignorant things and making misinformed comments based on past experiences with me. I sure as hell hope you’re not saying that kind of shit in front of the kids. (Hint: I am important to them, therefore that is harmful to your children.) I know things about you too, but I don’t talk shit in front of the kids, and FURTHERMORE - I’m not wasting my time trying to figure out how to get you into trouble. That’s called being a dickhead. Karma doesn’t like it, so I do my best NOT to do it.
You’d realize I’m not who you think or say I am if you’d stop talking shit about me for long enough to listen to my side, but I’m willing to bet that’s just not going to happen - not for a while at least. And that’s okay too. Just please keep your negativity to yourself for everyone’s benefit.
So for now, do us both a favor (hell, do YOUR KIDS a favor) - QUIT WORRYING ABOUT WHAT I’M DOING. If there was a problem - BELIEVE ME - you wouldn’t have to dig for it; it would be right there screaming for your attention. Instead, focus on you and your relationship with your children. That’s way more important than making threats or trying to figure out how to screw with me and *my* family.
